After Ronald T. Petrick graduated High School in 1955, he went to Dana College in Nebraska on a recommendation from the high school football team’s Doctor. He came to college on academic probation and ended up graduating at the top of the class. It was here he met the lady that would become his wife, Doris Flarup. He dated her, on and off for about 3 years. Doris said he would sit at her table in college for lunch and dinner. She said it was not “love at first sight”, but she said he was always goofing around with the other guys and that he was always having fun. She remembers their first date, where they walked downtown and when they came back, he asked her, “If you died, are you sure you would go to heaven?”, and she answered, "No." He was not right with the Lord at that time and was training for football in a fitness gym in Omaha . He trained with a fitness instructor by the name of Daryl Scott who had won the Mr. Nebraska title for weight lifting. One day Daryl was standing on the street corner in front of the gym and an old friend of Daryl’s showed up and gave him the gospel. Daryl got saved that day and was so excited he began sharing the gospel with everyone there. Daryl’s wife also got saved, and his marriage was put back together. Ronald became so convicted by this man’s dramatic conversion, that he questioned his own salvation. Although he had heard the gospel his entire life, he did not have the assurance of his salvation, and he did not have the changed heart and life that he saw in Daryl Scott’s life. At age 23, in his apartment. in Nebraska , Ronald cried out to Lord and was truly saved. He had purchased an engagement ring for Doris , but decided he would not give it to her unless he knew first that she was saved. He shared the gospel with her and she realized that even though she knew all of the Bible stories in her head, she had not accepted Jesus with her heart. So she bowed her head and asked Jesus to come into her heart and save her that day. Immediately after she trusted Christ, Ronald said, - Now, I have another question to ask you,… will you marry me? He gave her the engagement ring and she said, YES!!! They were married on May 16th, 1959 at Bethany Lutheran Church, Morgan Minnesota.
In June of 1959, Ronald announced to his new bride that he felt God was calling him into the ministry. Doris says that she was shocked and thought…. “That would make ME a Pastor’s wife!!!” “ I’m not qualified….I’m not ready for this!”... But as we all know,... Doris' love for the Lord, her love for her husband and her family,...and her love for people made her the perfect Pastor's wife!
Ronald did not become a Pastor until 1975, when they moved to Beach Park, IL. Before that he attended and graduated from Moody Bible Institute in Chicago, IL. Then he worked in probation and parole in Milwaukee, WI and after that at Rawhide Boy's Ranch in New London from 1969-1975. Then he followed God's leading, moving to Beach Park, IL in the fall of that year to Pastor his first Church. Doris supported her husband in all of the ups and downs of the ministry, and somehow just kept a glow about her that attracted everyone she came in contact with! We love and miss you so much !!
Survivors include spouse; Dr. Ronald Thomas Petrick; children, Jolene Chavarria, Mark (Ramona) Petrick, Brian (Lisa) Petrick, Ted (Nancy) Petrick; grandchildren, Bethany (Micah) Highland, Breanna Petrick, Benjamin Petrick, Duane Smith, Nicolette Smith, Markanthony Petrick, Matthew Petrick, Tamyann Petrick, Louis Petrick, Ricky Petrick (Tania Sajuan), Maritza Petrick (Oswaldo Jimenez), Victor Petrick (Dora Aguilar); 17 great-grandchildren and 1 on the way; cousins, Janice Often, and Joanne Scheurer; several nieces; and former-in-laws, Edith Petrick, and Tonio Chavarria.
Doris is preceded in death by her grandsons, Christopher Brian Petrick, and Josue Chavarria; parents, Niels Jensen, and Esther Sophie Flarup; and brother, Carlo Jensen Flarup.